Life Coaching

Feeling lost

As human beings, we all go through things in life, big or small. What matters is the impact a situation has on you, what you experience from within, and how you deal with it. Your inner world determines how you feel. The trigger might be a divorce, the loss of a loved one, illness – whether your own or that of someone close to you. It could also be something else, either recent or long past, that remains partly unprocessed or perhaps pushed away. As a result, you may (still) feel sorrow, pain, or tension.

 

You might also carry a more subtle, lingering sense of unease – something hard to define, except that it doesn’t go away and may even be growing stronger. One path out of this impasse is learning to feel more deeply and connect with your essence – beyond your personality, your ego, and the self-image you maintain. In my life coaching, I guide you to better recognize and acknowledge your inner world. So that you learn to see and break through your own shadow patterns, and reconnect with your true nature. From that place, you’ll breathe new life into your life.
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Practical tools and fast results

 

In my 1-on-1 life coaching, I offer you practical tools that help you let go of what doesn’t belong to you and become more aware of the stories you tell yourself. This allows you to step into your natural power of being. My life coaching is for both men and women who feel somewhat stuck and are looking for tangible results — quickly. I support you in reconnecting with your authentic power, regardless of what you’ve been through in life. You’ll notice that this process sets a powerful transformation in motion, shifting the way you see both yourself and the world around you.

‘The meaning of life is having a zest for life.

Evelien is able to sense like no other

 

“In my search for the right coach who could guide me to dive into what I feel and how to be able to connect deeper with my true self; I ended up with Evelien. A life coach who can sense like no other with a lot of experience. She tickled both my heart and mind. Helped me break through patterns. Evelien gave me many new insights and helped me get to the core of myself. She also challenged me. All this is done in a casual setting and always surrounded by the unique, magic energy that Evelien brings along and radiates has been very pleasant. I can say that I now live a complete different life. This is the best gift I ever gave myself.”

 

– Chris van Luxemburg
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Business Coach, Life Coach

Lead instead of suffer

Everyone faces challenges in life. It’s the art of facing the situation that’s in front of you and take this as an opportunity to see and understand yourself even better for who you really are. To be able to recognize your convictions, break through patterns and view situations from different perspectives. And, above all, be able to learn to feel at a deeper level and get to the core of your essence. I will guide you to distinguish between what’s part of your personality, self-image and ego on the one hand, and your soul, the source of love and light within yourself, on the other hand. This may sound hard to grasp, a bit vague or wooly, but trust me it is by no means. Living a life that’s not yours, that’s wooly. I’ll help you dive deep into the roots of your being. In such a way that you’ll experience more space and are able to face challenges without deep suffering every single time. It’s a matter of discovering how to lead instead of suffer. 
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Respectful, gentle and content wise firm

 

“These past months Evelien has been of great help to me in her coaching. She helped me to deeply realize what I really stand for in life and clarify what I will ultimately go for. Evelien’s style is respectful, gentle and at the same time content wise firm. This can sometimes be confrontational but always supportive. Also I experience Evelien as cheerful and light in her energy. She constantly makes you go one layer deeper and does not hesitate to hold up a mirror if you try to find an easy way out. So, if you are looking for a coach in the true sense of the word, who stimulates and guides you in choosing truly your own path, I can highly recommend Evelien.”

 

– Martin Rijnsburger
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Evelien as life coach

 

“The calmness and power that Evelien radiates, the open and save space she creates, combined with her deep involvement are extraordinary”
“She senses exactly what is going on deep within me and will not shy away from naming it, always in a gentle way and with an open heart. Exactly what I need.”
“Evelien is a warm personality. She needs little to see through you, which helps to get quickly to the core.”
“Her energy is calm and powerful at the same time. She is challenging and where necessary confrontational. She is a sharp mirror to yourself, alert in relation to your habits and thoughts.”
“She has a sixth sense that allows her to see me through, that makes the sessions with her very productive.”
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Rozell
She sees your blind spots

 

“Through her loving and at the same time powerful guidance I got to know myself at my deepest being, with my deepest desires in all areas of life. By doing this, I now make choices in life strongly lead by the heart which helps me to remain true to myself, in all circumstances. For me, this feels like arriving home and this gives an unimaginable amount of peace from within. Evelien sees your blind spots, in the moment she feels exactly what it is that you need – especially from yourself. She encourages you to take on what want to be seen and to face it, without letting herself be distracted by (my:) distraction strategies. Evelien herself lives for what she invites you to do. She is a calm, warm, open, powerful, loving and wonderfully fun person. Thank you Evelien for walking this path with me and that I’m able to learn from your wisdom.”

 

– Rozell Pouw

Have the courage to face ‘it’

 

Stop settling for a life that’s okay but not the way you feel it’s meant to be. Taking life on isn’t always the easiest way, but it’s the only way. There is simply no shortcut to a life where you have healed your pain and where you remember who you essentially are. There’s no point in hiding from what wants to be seen, it will eat you up and will come back in whatever disguise. Don’t be afraid of it, just have the courage to take on what you know is needed. Create the space to give your life more meaning and depth, with all the experiences that go with it. Learn to embrace them, they are all triggers that want to show you something. What would it be like if you’d actually live life as it is intended for you, with fulfillment and purpose? In such a way that this is reflected in your relationship(s), friendships and in your work? Don’t wait any longer, take action. Waiting a day is one too many.
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‘Overthinking,’ in poetry is saying:
‘The storms in my head ruined the garden that my sould holds.’

Lisette-Hoogstad
Because of you I really started to understand myself for the first time

 

“I would like to express my sincere appreciation for the invaluable help you have given me as a life coach and with your knowledge and experience of Human Design. Your guidance has helped me to have a deeper connection with myself, to sense what is good for me and especially what my boundaries are.
What I found to be very valuable was the loving and patient way in which you looked at my process. You have always created space for my emotions and thoughts, without judgment. This has helped me to open up completely and take the necessary steps in my personal growth.
Because of your guidance I felt recognized, not just by you but by myself. It felt as if I really started to understand myself for the first time. You have helped me to look deeply into my inner being, and to learn to embrace my unique qualities and life path.”

 

– Lisette Hoogstad

Living an intense life

 

It feels as though I’ve already lived several lives within this one lifetime. The word intense defines both me and the path I’ve walked – never shying away from depth, whether professionally or personally. Business-wise, I spent many years searching for the right role, which eventually led me – after a corporate career – to continue as an entrepreneur. That choice marked the beginning of a deep inward journey, reconnecting with my core essence and remembering my purpose. From that space, I launched my coaching business in 2015, fully dedicating myself to doing the work that truly fits me. It involved a lot of time spent ‘in the basement,’ doing the deep, inner work.

 

No way back to ignorance

 

Alongside my professional journey, I’ve also experienced deep personal transformation. Some friendships evolved with me – others didn’t. I went through a divorce, encountered partners I couldn’t truly connect with, or who became seriously ill. In short, my life hasn’t followed a straight line. I’ve fully embraced everything that crossed my path, and it has brought me a sense of inner peace and wisdom that I deeply cherish. Once you see things clearly, you can’t unsee it. There is no way back to ignorance. The richness and diversity of my life experiences allow me to truly sense and connect with what my clients are going through. It’s exactly for that reason that my care and love for the people I work with run deep.
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Frequently asked questions

How do I know if I’m ready for life coaching?

Do you feel stuck and unsure of what steps to take next? Have you been carrying this feeling for a while, without finding your way out on your own? Do conversations with others around you no longer provide the clarity or support you need? If so, I invite you to schedule a free discovery call to see if there’s a connection between us and whether my approach to life coaching resonates with you. This conversation will bring clarity, and based on your initial questions, I’ll be able to tell you right away how I can – or cannot – support you.

 

What if I’m not entirely clear on what I need help with?

That’s completely okay – it happens more often. Sometimes the reason you’re feeling stuck touches multiple areas of your life, such as your relationships, friendships, collaborations, or work. You don’t need to have everything figured out before starting. I’m here to help you untangle the confusion and bring clarity, and that process already begins during the free discovery call. From there, you’ll gain insight into the core of what’s really going on. My life coaching approach always takes a holistic view – looking at both your personal and professional life – so we can work together from a broader perspective to create meaningful and lasting change.

Do You Also Work with Human Design?

Yes, in my life coaching, Human Design is always used as a supportive tool, aligned with the specific needs of the client. After first exploring Human Design and the fascinating world of the Gene Keys in depth for myself years ago, I began integrating it into my coaching practice. Whether in the context of life coaching or business coaching, it has proven to be a powerful addition—often offering striking insights that help my clients deepen their self-awareness. That said, I always emphasize that in my approach, Human Design follows the client – not the other way around. It supports what I intuitively see and feel unfolding in the coaching process.

 

Do you work with a waiting list for life coaching?

No, I don’t work with a waiting list. Reaching out to a (life) coach is often preceded by a long inner process. By the time someone is ready, there’s usually a strong urge to begin within a relatively short timeframe. I take this into account in my planning. Also, this way of working also aligns with my Human Design profile as a 6/2. I always keep space in my schedule. It suits who I am and the spaciousness I need to do this work with the right energy and focus. As a result, I’m usually able to respond and start quickly.

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